She said she wanted to die because she was too ugly
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Tamara Pearson , Merida: Jul 14 2008
Made Popular Jul 14 2008

Venezuela has won Miss Universe again. While my friend wrote on her blog today, “I don’t know if anyone as big as me deserves to be alive.”

In a right wing newspaper here, there is diagram of the winner of Miss Universe, Dayana Mendoza. She is 176cm tall, and there are lines pointing to her bust, waist, and hips, with the corresponding measurements. We also get an analysis of her face, her lip shape, skin toning, nose length, eye location and hair style.

Rules of the competition demand that entrants be between 18 and 27, never have been married or pregnant and those who have the most chance of winning are those with “the perfect measurements” of a 90cm bust, 60cm waist, and 90cm hips, with a height of at least 170cm.

And so, in this consumer world where everything is measured and given a price and a value, beauty too, is measured in centimetres, and then a few rich white men dictate to the world who is ugly and who ‘deserves to live’.

The owner of the Miss Universe contest is Donald Trump, owner of a world wide network of hotels and casinos. The judges consisted of Donald Trump’s son, a (male) Italian fashion designer, a Porta Rican actress, a (male) US stylist, the 2004 Miss Universe winner, and a (male) transformationist.

Venezuela is a stunning rainbow of black skinned to a gradient of brown skinned people, but it is no coincidence that Dayana Mendoza is blond, green eyed, and white.

In a world dominated by US culture- music, movies, clothes- the dominant idea of beauty is also racist.

Gabriel Oviedo Serrate, the Bolivian participant, said, “People who know something about Bolivia think that we are Indians of the west of the country, it’s the image of La Paz that reflects this, these poor people and people of short stature and Indian people… I’m from the other side of the country, from the east side, that isn’t cold, its very hot. We are tall and we are white people and we know English, and this mistaken concept that Bolivia is only an Andean country is wrong.”

The Russian candidate, Vera Krasova, in the final round of questions, said she doesn’t believe there is discrimination against women these days.

Meanwhile, my friend continues, “It is horrible to think other people have to look at me, let alone no one could possibly love me.”

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:-| this is what over exposure to such such can do to your brain! stop watching all this. the only solution here is to love and respect yourself before you command it from others. you are what you are and be proud of it. yuck, i hate to think people can get so carried away by stuff like this. if you dont love yourself how the f**k are others going to do that!?
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John betterconstructed.co..
Show Low, United States
At least you editted your swear words...
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I thought she said fork.

:P
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Asmita
Shimla, India
The ”rules” and the ”standards” that such pageants and even the modeling industry demands are basically very dumb...

by getting a lean, boney, giant to sell beauty and fashion products, the industry is just playing on the insecurity of women who arent lean, boney or tall...

in real life, a girl with such stats would be teased for being too tall, or too lean... but for some odd reason people in the modeling agencies and beauty contests believe thats how all women should be...

these glamor shows are in no way representative of normal, regular or average women... if you’re judging yourself by their standards, you’re an idiot!!!
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Wow, if you will all allow me to just ”be a guy” for a moment. She is spectacularly attractive and so glamorous.

Um... yeah... what was the topic again ?

;)
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LOL at the idea that there is no discrimination against women, from the Russian contestant...

It’s a very rarefied environment, the beauty pageant... and who’s being fooled are the consumers of cosmetics and fashion products... but, as a mere male... and a representative of the 50%-ish of humanity which are largely responsible for most of this world’s problems... I blame advertising imagery and the culture of consumption for the unrealistic imagery and gender-contructions.
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gender-constructions, that is...
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Desh
Shimla, India
”[E]ye location”?

Seriously?
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Meaning if the eyes are too much in the middle or too far apart etc...
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Tyrone
Melbourne, Australia
Physical beauty is a scarce commodity available in abundance. All have it, few can encash on it. Imagine a scenario where instead of beauty, we’ve ‘ugly contests’ – ‘ugly pageants’. Winners getting chance to play bad guys/gals in bond movies and endorse Reid&Taylor, Tissot, and what not. The role losers would be clicking the headline – ‘She said she wanted to die because she was too beautiful.’ In bird species, males are ‘considered’ beautiful, females not. It’s reverse here. So, why make it an issue. Just mold your ‘consideration’.
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Chris
Mexico City, Mexico
Venezuela has long been known as a beauty obsessed country. The vainest of both the sexes in this world are undoubtedly Venezuelans. Beauty pageantry is marketed in such a way that it has fueled the boom of cosmetic surgery clinics, cosmetic dental clinics and not to mention a range of fashion and beauty products. This was bound to happen. It came as no surprise to me.
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Farzad
Tehran, Iran
This particular chick is a nut case like many others who starve themselves to match themselves with the starved population of Somalia. She is a prime candidate to be flogged. Such people with their irresponsible behaviour make the world a very dangerous place for people who are averagely gifted.
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I think you’re miss-naming the ’criminals’ here. It annoys me when men pretend to have any idea of what it is like to be female, when in this world we are primarily valued according to our appearance rather than what we do or think
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Ife
Abuja, Nigeria
Venezuela is a stunning rainbow of black skinned to a gradient of brown skinned people, but it is no coincidence that Dayana Mendoza is blond, green eyed, and white.


Pretty much sums up the demand and supply theory and the prejudices alleged against European fashion houses against dark skinned models.
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Gaurav
Banglore, India
It's not just Venezuelan women, but Venezuelan men are just as vain. And why not? Beauty is such a big industry out there just as it is becoming in India. No, India is already up there. You can see a lot of Indian males rushing to the beauty salons these days. This wasn't the same 20 years back.
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Bijoy
tinsukia, India
Whats the fuss all about huh? With few exceptions, these contestants dont deserve so much of the news bites either. Whats a big deal in landing yourself in the coffinn just by keeping yourself lean and thin and resemble someone from Somalia or Dafur?
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My friend doesn’t want to be that thin, just less overweight, but you make a good point. That is, the irony of ’skinny’ being fashionable and many women feeling the need to spend money on being skinny- on diet programs etc, whilst many people can’t afford to eat. I read a statistic once that the money spent on cosmetics in the US alone each year would be enough to feed the world’s poor.
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
We know looking good and desiring good looks has a scientific purpose.. Selection of the right mate for procreation..
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LOL...thats the main, central idea! everything in the world boils down to that...Procreation! :P reallly, this is hilarious to think of, but very true!!! its easier to associate animals with such kinda thinking, but not humans! LOL
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that is true. i guess girls do all this slimming and looking good not only to impress the boys but also not to be ridiculed among the girls. its stupid, but its true.

the more confident and secure you are about urself, the better it is for you. be proud of whatever you are! simple as that, and life will be easier for everyone!
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Jaiyant Cavale
Bangalore, India
Hey Sharmila, to be proud of whatever you are is easier said than done. I won’t buy it if someone said they are completely happy with what they look like.. Even Nicole Kidman would worry about the nagging wrinkle around her eyes.. I think it is human nature to be vain and insecure and also critical about each others looks
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:-| it never seeemed difficult to me...anyways! i think it depends and changes from person to person. we are for sure a stupid bunch of God’s creation :P but all said and done, i dONT think being secure and content about the way you look is something difficult!
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Toby
Baton Rouge, United States
If that is the case, she should really die. And if she wants her miserable and pitiful life to end I can suggest her a few ways how to die painlessly. We don't want such scumbags to be around in this world.
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Aw, thats reallly rude! :P but ur right. we dont really want people who are looking for other’s sympathy and attention to be out in the open.
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I would like to understand why in Venezuela, apart from oil, has as many misses!